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Both ‘adulting’ and letting kids really grow up can be too challenging for some! We generally don’t like change and tend to love comfort. Change is difficult. It is uncomfortable. On the other hand ‘comfort’ seems easy and familiar. But think about your life journey thus far. You began life literally being held by your mother. Then nine months or so – everything changed. And it changed because you had grown! In fact, ‘growth’ and ‘change’ are partners! One day you were in a basinet, then in a cradle, then in a cot, then in a bed – and were still not yet four years old! We are not meant to stay the same (although, as we get older staying the same in appearance would have been quite nice!!). You may have heard the saying that “God loves you just as you are, but loves you too much to leave you the way you are.” God knows that change will be rewarding and lead to you having a more fulfilling life. You may not like change, or even want to change – but you’re already an expert at it – and may not even realise it!
About this we have much to say, and it is hard to explain, since you have become dull of hearing. For though by this time, you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food, for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.
Hebrews 5:11-14
SOMETHING’S MISSING
When you were little (you know, the days of basinets, cradles, and cots) you had a mother and a father who took care of your needs. They ‘blessed’ you. But their mission for you was for you to be a blessing to others as you grew up into maturity. This was what Father God told Father Abram:
Now the LORD said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonours you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
Genesis 12:1-3
CHANGING YET ABIDING
The dictionary definitions of abide cover the thoughts of “to remain, dwell, withstand without yielding, and to wait for.” In the Bible, the word takes on a greater intimacy, and is often used to show the need to rely on the Lord in every aspect of one’s life. God shows us that we are to abide IN HIM and walk WITH Him. Jesus spoke about this often.
“Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.”
John 15:4
Spiritual disciplines are actually necessary, not optional, if we are to mature in our relationship with God. Maturing means we have to step into the call of God for us individually and corporately. This is what the Scripture means when it talks about milk and meat. The meat is when we actually train ourselves in living the Word by ‘constant practice’. It involves reading (and knowing) and then doing. Prayer, studying the Word, serving, and gathering in unity are not suggestions they are vital.
We must also humble ourselves under the mighty Hand of the Almighty for seasons of growth. It does take time, discipline and even pain at times. You may have noticed in your own life, as I have, that it is often in the times of various pains that we reach out to and lean on God in earnest through reading His Word and prayer (and often singing Christian based songs) that we come closer to God. He has never let me down.
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you.
First Peter 5:6
A gifted musician or an athlete can tell you that the path to their success was not comfortable. It required many hours of commitment, many failures and even temptation to quit. “No pain no gain” is a real thing. Pain can be a gift. To be a Christ follower, a disciple of Jesus, we will need to pick up our cross and follow Him. It is a walk not a: sitting down, watching and listening, experience. The narrow way is not as popular as the ‘broad way’ (Matt. 7:13-14). It will require sacrifice and trusting completely in God to sustain us and bring us to His desired destination – which is being made a whole and complete person.
If we focus on our feelings of being blessed or happy or respected, we will often be offended and easily defeated by our enemy. It is true that blessings, joy and honour do come as a result of following Christ; but our focus should be on Jesus and His Kingdom – not merely fulfilling our personal ambitions. As we abide in Him, in the vine we will produce lasting good fruit, as a result of this continuing relationship – the source of true life.
The devil has always sought to bring lies to us that we deserve better, that we should question why God is withholding something from us or that we need something NOW. In responding to these lies we become detached and removed from that intimate relationship with God. An offence takes place that creates a barrier which eventually causes us to weaken spiritually or perhaps even die.
A mature believer is someone who trusts in the goodness of God, obeys His commands and disciplines their thoughts and actions. This is done with the help of the Holy Spirit to weaken the desires of the flesh. The mark of a true believer is one who is connected deeply with God and with others in the faith through interdependence and submission. A willingness to learn and be corrected is a perfect picture of humility. We do this much easier with the Word of God, although God also uses people or circumstances too. We need to keep a heart of repentance of our sin and also extend forgiveness towards others sin. It’s always a challenging and sobering thought that Jesus forgives us as much as we are willing to forgive others!
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:14-15
Being independent from God and from His body on this earth – appears to be possible. A person can appear spiritual and disciplined but lack the unity of faith (the relationship).
A healthy fear of God is also needed to be able to grow up. Even a child in a family will never be a good son or daughter if they refuse to respect and honour their parents and do not contribute to the household by serving. This is childish. Trust in this child will not be given by a parent until they can see there is submission and understanding of the boundaries that are given to protect them and help them to grow up.
So, ask yourself today: “Am I abiding (remaining, dwelling, withstanding without yielding, and waiting in) Christ? Am I allowing the Holy Spirit to train me and teach me through the Word what is good and acceptable? Have I laid down my own agenda? Am I serving faithfully now in whatever opportunities God brings across my path?”
Encourage each other in the faith. Someone may be going through a difficult patch where it’s hard for them to keep running the race. Focus on God and His eternal benefits. We have been and will continue to know the blessings of God. Maybe we can mature enough to be useful blessing-vessels for God. What a privilege that is!
Amen.
Children’s Pastor,
Riikka
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